Brodo Primordiale

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Q. You’ve talked about guys masturbating with too firm a grip and doing lasting damage. I’m 21, male, in good shape, and have been jerking off with a death grip daily since I was 10. Lately my cock has been failing me. I have trouble staying hard, especially when wearing a condom. I’ve heard that the death grip can decrease sensitivity and make it harder to come, but can it lead to impotence? Is this physical or am I just psyching myself out? —THE DEATH GRIP

A. I suspect you’re psyching yourself out, TDG, allowing one or two failed performances to snowball into a self-fulfilling, boner-negating prophecy. And here’s how to psych yourself back in: Stop masturbating with a death grip—immediately, right now, forever. Masturbate with a lighter touch, use more lube, and be strict with your dick: If you don’t get off, you don’t get off. Sooner or later, your dick will, out of sheer desperation, learn to appreciate subtler sensations.

On the condom front: If you’re putting the condom on right before penetration, as so many dudes do, you’re going to experience a sudden drop in sensitivity at the worst possible moment. Condoms are often cold when first applied, TDG, and we all know what cold does to boners. So put the condom on at least 10 minutes before intercourse. Roll it on your dick during foreplay, or have your girlfriend roll it on.

~ by brodo on 26 Ottobre 2007.